Top 8 books for men

2024-10-28T00:00:00+01:00 | 2 minute read | Updated at 2024-11-08T14:14:50+01:00

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Top 8 books for men

After sharing my favorite books on meditation and awakening, it’s time for essential reads for men. This collection is thoughtfully arranged, with my most valued at the top.

  1. The Untethered Soul, by Michael A. Singer This was also a top choice on my meditation and awakening list, as I consider it profoundly impactful. Meditation is a deeply masculine practice.

  2. The Way of the Superior Man, by David Deida A bit outdated now, but still a powerful read. David Deida is widely recognized for his contributions to men’s work, and this book still offers deep and thorough insights on masculine energy and purpose.

  3. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, by Mark Manson A refreshing and lighthearted approach to ego deconstruction. Mark Manson’s books are impactful and engaging. This one, in particular, offers a witty, grounded look at shedding unnecessary worries and living with intention.

  4. Models, by Mark Manson This is another book I often recommend. It’s direct, authentic, and encourages men to be their true selves. It’s also valuable in learning from rejection and not falling into victimhood.

  5. Radical Honesty, by Brad Blanton This is a fascinating and effective guide to living authentically. It’s a bold approach to personal interactions and integrity.

  6. Enlightened Sex, by David Deida This book explores the intersection of spirituality and intimacy, offering insights on creating deeper connections.

  7. Wild Nights, by David Deida This is a conversation about passionate love and the divine nature of intimacy, expanding on Deida’s views on love and connection.

  8. No More Mr. Nice Guy, by Robert A. Glover This book is transformative for some men, particularly those who struggle with the “nice guy” identity. While this wasn’t my experience, I know men whose lives have significantly shifted by realizing and addressing this pattern.

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You’ll find writings on non-duality, self-realization, Zen, Tantra and related topics here. My aim is to make these profound subjects approachable and digestible. I’ve found much of the literature abstract and inaccessible; understanding should be within everyone’s reach.

I’m a self-development addict; it’s fascinating to take yourself as the research object. I’ve explored various self-development trainings and retreats: primal therapy, shadow work, breath work, menswork, concentration meditation, etc. In the last decade, my main teachings come from Rinzai Zen under various teachers (mostly indebted to Jun Po Dennis Kelly Roshi - my most important teacher), and Tantra (various schools).

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The Meditation Experiment V2

I’ve written a small book on non-dual (non) meditation, with a 9 day (fun!) meditation challenge. I’ve had many positive reviews - you should try it :) You can find it here.

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