The inquiry that leads to realization

2024-11-02T00:00:00+01:00 | 1 minute read | Updated at 2024-11-08T14:14:50+01:00

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The inquiry that leads to realization

The inquiry is paradoxical

The inquiry that leads to awakening is paradoxical. We yearn for precise instructions, but awakening cannot be grasped through technique alone. It’s about finding that delicate balance where intention dissolves into surrender. No effort of the individual self can force it, for only Life awakens itself.

Our task is to remain deeply open - to hold space for the unknown, allowing awareness to be what it already is. The mind constantly seeks to define and conclude: ‘This isn’t it, that isn’t it.’ Yet every doubt is a fleeting thought. If we see this clearly, the thought fades, and something more fundamental remains: the aware presence that is untouched by any mental activity.

What is this presence that observes thoughts without being altered by them? What is this self-illuminating awareness that shines both in thought and in stillness? When we inquire into this, we are not searching for an answer. The answer is the pure, direct experience of Being.

The key is to remain alert yet relaxed, continually letting go of all mental constructs, until consciousness itself reveals the truth beyond words - truth more real than anything the mind could comprehend. Surrender to this, and Life will take care of the rest.

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About Gibster

You’ll find writings on non-duality, self-realization, Zen, Tantra and related topics here. My aim is to make these profound subjects approachable and digestible. I’ve found much of the literature abstract and inaccessible; understanding should be within everyone’s reach.

I’m a self-development addict; it’s fascinating to take yourself as the research object. I’ve explored various self-development trainings and retreats: primal therapy, shadow work, breath work, menswork, concentration meditation, etc. In the last decade, my main teachings come from Rinzai Zen under various teachers (mostly indebted to Jun Po Dennis Kelly Roshi - my most important teacher), and Tantra (various schools).

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Contacting me

You’re very welcome to contact me - for questions, help or guidance on your path or anything else. I enjoy connecting to other human beings :) My email is me@gibster.nl

Note

Personal help or guidance is free, I’m not here to make money. Do note that there is a waiting list for guidance spots at the moment.

Guided meditations

I’ve recorded a number bite-size non-dual guided meditation which you can find on Spotify.

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The Meditation Experiment V2

I’ve written a small book on non-dual (non) meditation, with a 9 day (fun!) meditation challenge. I’ve had many positive reviews - you should try it :) You can find it here.

Workshops & Satsangs

I’ve been giving some small workshops, there are plans to organise larger events, with non-dual insight excercises combined with breath and bodywork - expect updates mid 2025.

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